‘Prom-posal’ gestures heighten student expectations

Prom has always been a buzz-worthy topic. In the months leading up to the big dance, talk of dresses, limos and party buses can be heard among students. However, what is undoubtedly the most talked about aspect of prom is who is going with who.

In recent years, the expectation of receiving an extravagant “prom-posal” has become more and more typical. Last year, people at the high school got asked to prom through the Tiger Times morning announcement system, by getting a fast food restaurant to write a prom-posal message on their sign, walking into the library with friends whose chests were painted to spell out “prom?” and giving a rose to each one of the girl’s teachers for them to hand to her when she entered the classroom.

If it weren’t for social media, I surely wouldn’t know about as many of these “prom-posals” as I do. People usually post pictures or videos of their prom date’s clever act on Twitter or Instagram, allowing their peers to view (and possibly become jealous of) the gesture.

Let me make this clear: I’m all for chivalrous acts and an extravagant prom-posal is obviously very thoughtful and flattering. But it isn’t necessary.

Of course, I certainly wouldn’t be upset to see “Hannah, will you go to prom with me?” written up in the sky. However, like many other girls, I would be perfectly happy to be asked to prom through a simple, face-to-face conversation.

After all, working up the courage to ask someone to be your prom date can be stressful enough. People shouldn’t have the added pressure of making their “prom-posal” extravagant, clever or heartfelt enough for their date to happily say yes.

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